Here are a few of my thoughts on the situation.
I work full time. At this very moment it's the only option for my family. And guess what, I'm happy with this. I choose to feed William organically when possible. If you don't want to do the same that's okay! I was lucky enough to be able to produce milk for William and I did it for 16 months. Yep, that's right. This past weekend was the last time I nursed my baby forever. Unfortunately, I feel like people judge me for this. I have friends that had a hard time producing milk and they felt judged for not breast feeding their baby. Come on people....let's be nice to each other. We are all doing the best we can. The thing is....you just never know what someone is going through. So, be careful before you judge. I have no idea what anyone things of me. Nor do I really care. Years ago I probably would have cared but now I just have to do what's best for my family. William is 100% dependent on us so a lot of what I do is for him. I also try to take care of myself/my body, raise our child going to church and believing in God (as G and I were) and I try to keep a good healthy marriage. No area gets 100%. It's just not physically possible. All I can do is try my best. As long as William, Gordon and I are happy that's all that matters.
Here's a video that everyone should watch. You can also go to You Tube and Search for "If We Could See Inside Others Hearts by the Cleveland Clinic" It's AMAZING. Being an oncology nurse I realize, maybe a little more than others, that everyone has "a story" (and a lot of them are very sad). Gordon and I have had our own scary times. I didn't have an "normal" pregnancy. I left a lot of my doctors appointments in tears because our baby wasn't growing and they didn't know if he was getting everything he needed inside of me. After he was born I had to leave the hospital without my baby. I've gone into surgery not knowing what the outcome would be. BUT, I'm grateful because I know there is someone out there with a story much worse than mine. I wish I could hug them. At least we have William. He is our little miracle. I've seen family and friends go through infertility and it's heartbreaking. In This Wonderful Life is another great blog that tells the story of a family that's been through much more heartache than I can fathom. All I can do is count my blessings and pray!
If you could stand in someone else's shoes....
Hear what they hear.
See what they see.
Feel what they feel.
Would you treat them differently?
Don't worry if you're not super mom. Nobody is. Just be the best that you can be. Do what's right for you and your family. Be kind. We are all fighting our own battle. Hug your babies and your fellow mommies!
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