When Texas Children's was preparing to open the new Women's Pavilion this spring they started a blog that I've really loved reading! Today's post really hit close to home for me. The woman writing the blog post, Angela, is also a mom of a preemie. I love hearing from other preemie mommies that they had some of the same feelings that I experienced. Gordon and I didn't have a "normal" birthing process. We didn't have a normal pregnancy. I am so grateful for my precious little angel baby but man did Gordon and I worry, worry and worry some more! I cried when I visited my friend who had a full term baby 2 weeks after me. When I walked in the room and her baby boy was in the crib next to her with all of their family surrounding them my heart broke. I was happy for her but just so sad that William couldn't always be with me....that I didn't get to hold him until he was 5 hours old and even then it was only for 30 minutes, that the doctor didn't lay him on my chest when he was born like I'd always envisioned, that I couldn't breast feed him. BLESSED. That's what Gordon and I are. We got through some tough times together and we have a healthy baby boy. It doesn't get any better than that. I know we are lucky but there were still times I felt kinda sad...sad that my baby had to go through so much....that he was in pain and I couldn't fix anything.
So, I thought I'd post this just in case there is a mama out there reading it that could relate to this situation!!
My favorite part of the article:
Like many parents of hospitalized newborns, my husband, Alan, and I had a very different introduction to new parenthood than what had been described in all of the pregnancy books that I began devouring as soon as I learned we were pregnant. Having a baby that was so premature meant that we would not cut an umbilical cord, I would not hold my baby after he was born, and one of the most devastating things to me initially was learning I would not breastfeed Clark for weeks or possibly months.
As a tiny newborn, he was still growing and learning what most babies have the benefit of doing within their mothers’ protective wombs.
*G did get to cut William's umbilical cord :)
Here's the link to the TCH BLOG:
http://connect2teams.texaschildrens.org/teams/3/BW/default.aspx
XOXO to all those NICU families out there!!!
Here are a few photos that Alison took when I was meeting William for the first time!
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1st diaper change |
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